trying to help vs putting someone down

Trying to help vs putting someone down with hars words.they both might sound and look like they are the same but i will point out their difference. when someone is trying to always put down someone by means of harsh hurting words such as insults. is bc that person has HATE against that person.which they CAN'T SEE NOTHING GOOD in them. this becomes obvious when anything that other person does is always wrong to them(hate) or nothing "good" that person offers.when someone "hates" you they will ALWAYS put u down in a very harsh and hurtful way. this can cause pain in that other person's heart leading them to so many difficult times is important to seek help when this starts becoming more and more.you have to watch out for this ......NOW the other way of trying to help might also seem like that other person is always looking for your "flaws" u did might be at work or at school or somewhere a long those places...from a student point of view it might seem like their coach is always asking for more. and it seems like nothing satisfies that coach/teacher/person teaching that other person/ but this way of point out flaws" by no means should hurt someone instead make them a better person THO there are some that do take it the wrong way. and think THEY CAN'T do nothing GOOD for that person always watching them do something .....just remember one is to put you down make you feel awful hurt your feeling cause you pain make you misserable.bring pain to you wich will cause anger.... this you need to watch out / the other one is to HELP YOU BECOME A BETTER you ..yes it is appreciated what you do ..just that there's another LEVEL for you to conquer ..MAKE SURE YOU DON"T MIX THEM BOTH.. because it could lead you to greatness or make you feel HURT ANGRY AND MISERABLE.